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When I become a fan of an athlete...
Or a sports figure...
It’s not easy to de-fan myself when they do something stupid...
I’ve invested my time...
My emotions...
And sometimes even investing my money in that person...
So what am I supposed to do when the athlete fails me?
When they become human...
And we see that ugly sinful nature...
For me...
It’s not just the performance on the field...
Off the field character is important, too...
I’ve learned over the years...
That some have character...
Others are characters...
John Wooden...
Character personified...
Dennis Rodman...
A real character...
One is my hero...
The other needs my prayers...
And over the years...
I’ve carefully selected those I’ve rooted for...
When we moved to the LA area in ‘65...
I was faced with a choice...
USC or UCLA...
Baby blue was my favorite color...
So the choice was easy...
A winning basketball team made it easier to root for...
And a coach with impeccable character became my hero...
John Wooden...
Probably my favorite sports figure of all time...
Through the years...
He remained in character...
I was so impressed...
I read his book...
They Call Me Coach...
And you can’t count on one hand the books I’ve read...
But then there’s the other side...
Rooting for someone who exemplifies sports...
Gives it their all on the field...
But then...
After a period of years...
Their sad humanity is revealed off the field...
Sometimes this person...
Will force you to root for a team...
That you’d never dream of rooting for...
Pete Rose was just that man...
He was baseball...
And played it the way it was designed to be played...
Charlie Hustle...
Probably the most captivating baseball player I’ve seen...
But unfortunately...
True to the last part of his nickname...
Mr. Hustle became Mr. Hustler...
His gambling demons got to him...
And they took him down...
Leaving this fan to shake his head...
I had invested so much in this guy and he gambled my affection away...
What do I do now???
The hate switch doesn’t turn on that easily...
Can’t make fun of him, can I???
No, not like the Terrell Owenses of the world...
Pete’s life was like this beautiful, white bed sheet...
With a huge stain in the middle...
The eyes are focused on the stain...
Even though the area of that stain...
Don’t even come close the area of the white surrounding the stain...
I found myself stepping back...
Praying and hoping he would find redemption...
I’m still waiting...
And then more recently...
Another guy...
Maybe the most dominant ever in his sport...
Takes a tumble...
As he was coming up the ranks, I was forced to root for him...
A fellow alumnus from Anaheim's Western High School...
The phenom...
The prodigy...
Tiger Woods...
My favorite golfer of all time...
Chasing immortality...
And eventually...
Chasing skirts...
“Down goes Tiger. Down goes Tiger...”
So what do I do now???
It’s hard to do a 180 and become a hater...
Same answer as with Rose...
Pray and hope he will find redemption...
Not on the course...
But in the course of his life...
It’s not easy...
Tiger doesn't need a bigger piece of the PGA pie...
But a peace that passes all understanding...
And sadly...
There's one more...
Maybe the most tragic of the three...
You see...
There is no reason...
On God’s green earth...
That I would ever root for Penn State...
Except for one man...
Joe Pa...
I loved the Plain Jane uniforms...
And that Italian-American coach seemed pretty cool, too...
Loved those glasses and that nose...
Could just visualize him...
Woofing down a plate of spaghetti...
Yeah, he should have retired a long time ago...
But he didn’t...
And then the unthinkable happened...
Yeah...
He should have retired a long time ago...
1998 to be exact...
But he didn’t...
Until 14 years later...
Leaving the program...
And life...
In disgrace...
Impossible to make amends now...
So here I am again...
As a fan...
Taking a step back...
Watching all of this happen...
The sanctions...
Reminding me of the movie...
They Shoot Horses, Don’t They???
I hang my head in sadness...
It didn’t have to end this way...
He wasn’t the perpetrator...
Just an enabler...
Which unfortunately...
Is sometimes worse...
dvt
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